Boyfriend & Girlfriend Culture

 

 

Ek zamana tha jab 13,14 saal ki umer mai shadi kardi jati thi jab kay us zamany mai 13 saal ki ladki ko shadi ka matlab bhe theek say pata na tha. Meri dadi apnay bachpan mai hony wali shadi kay bary mai mujhy jab batati hain tu mujhy buhut hansi atti hai yaqeenan aj ki noojawan nasal es baat sa bakoobi wakif hogi kay es waqt 13 saal ki ladki nasamjh samjhi jati hai shadi tu buhut door ki baat hai

Zamana badal gaya hai  aj ki 13, 14 saal ki ladki shadi kay lie tu tayar nhi magar facebook par apna status single sa tabdeel karkay (in a relationship)ya (open relationship) likhnay ko zaroor tayar hai or noojawanu ki aksaryat ka facebook par dating or looking for relationship ka irada saaf nazar ata hai. Yahe haal teenagers ladku ka bhe hai 90% noojawan hain  jinhai girlfriend ya boyfriend ki talaash ya yah purany girlfriend ya boyfriend say jan churany  ki aas… mulq kay halat kuch bhe ho in mamlay mai itni yakjheehti bhe nazar ati hai, pyar bhe……

Aj kal na ladky kam hai na ladkyan. Ladkyun ki sooch yah kay hum q peachy rahai in kamu mai jo buhut hi galat sooch hai kuch media ka kasoor hai kuch parents ka or kuch net ka bhe mera sawal noojawan nasal say a hai ek humari youth sirf in kamu mai kune itni agay hai inhi kamu mai hi yaakhjeehti kune??? Jo lower class or illleterate loog mai shadiu  under age kay khilaaf sir garam nazar atay hain in taleem.e.yafta upper class or middle class kay loogo kay bachy es waqt girlfriend ya boyfriend kay relation ka shikar kune hain?

Kisi ko pasand karnay commitment karny mai koi burai nhe hai lakin aj kal bus jazbat sa khela jata hai. Jo rishty or pyar ki kahaniyan sachai par mubni hua karti thi ab khuwabu o khayal hogai hain.Ab rishty ko 2,4 month ya hud hoi tu 1 saal ahmiyat  diii jati hai eskay baad new year  goal mai girlfriend ya boyfriend tabdeel karny ka goal sab say awal hota hai…

Har rishta sachai ki bunyaad par qaim hota hai intehaai sharamnak baat hai kay apnay sukoon or mazay kay lie jo noojawan hud sa guzar jaie or dusooru ko dhuka dai ya buhut galat hai es baat ka ehsaas ya sab parhty houi bhe na ho lakin jab yah waqt guzar jaiega tab es baat par zaroor pachtaawa hoga…