Rishton ki kami.... WALDAIN ka farz

Humari society mai ladkiyon kay lie rishto ki talaash ek bara masla ban chukka hai.  Achay aur munasib rishton ki talaash aaj kal her ghar ka masla hai.. aur actually  yeh masla hamara khud ka banaya huwa hai. Ladkiyon ki barhti umer parents kay lie pareyshani ka masla ban jati hai. Lihaza rishto ki talaash ka masla ek khatarnak surat ikhtiyar karta jaraha hai, jin gharun mai zada ladkiyan hoti hai tu maa baap paryshan hokar kam parhy likhy ladku ko kabil.e.kabool kar laiti hain lekin meray nazdeek  aj kal parhy likhy loog un mai larkay walay hon ya larki walay.. sirf zahiri shakal soorat, taleem aur achi job/business ko deikhty hain  jo  shadi honay tak to theek lagta hai  lekin shadi ka baad ek bara masla banjata hai aaj kal aik acha insan koi nahi deikhta, baray baray status aur bari bari degrees to deikhein gay lekin larkay ya larki may aik acha insan bhi hai ya nahi.. yeh her giz nahi deikhein gay.

her waldein ki yehi khawiash aur fiker hoti hai kay wo apni beeti ko mehfooz haathoun main hii daein, kissi bhi aye'gii bandey ko nahi, ager beeti kay waldein kay ekhtiyar main hota tou khud apni beeti ka nasib aachey sey aacha likhtey , ghar jahiz, ya taleem ya jo meyar ko lay kar ghar banai jaty hai wo  kabi nahin basa karty , Dunyia ka sub say mushkil kam rishtey nibhana hai kiuyn key yeh nibhtey nahi in ko nibhaya jata hai, jis beeti ki rukhsati hoti hai uss pal uss ghar ek naii beeti ka janam hota hai wo ghar jo sussral kehlata hai, aur us ka taluq kissi ek ferd/member ya sirf shohar sey nahin  hota usay say jurrey her rishtey say hota hai, issi trha larka hai ager jab wo un rishtoun ko ehtaraam aur izzat dey ga , tou larki kiun nahi dey gii, jahan zehnii hum ahengii na ho, sochoun diloun main fark hou wahan waqti nazdikiyaan hoti hein,un rishto ko pher sirf majboori kay tehat nibhaya jata hai.

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Shadi zindagi ka ek bhut eham or important faisla ho hota hai ya gurya gudy ka khail nhi hota esiliey jahan munasib rishty milai waldein ko bhe chahyie kay wo takheer naa karein beeti ko rukhsat kerny waley banein, itna kamata ho keh us ki zarorayaat poori ker saky, uss key rishtoun ko ehtaraam day sakai  , uskay naseeb mai jitna hoga tou Allah Tala usay zaroor nawaz dein ga, larki kisi bhi roop main ho maa, behen, beeti, bus itna sha'oor ho keh apna ehtaraam kerwana aur kerna jaanti ho ...